Well, after a day of anxiety and frantic phone calls to the lawyer, law guardian, teacher and Dr. I get this when I get home:
She is not getting that......I don't want to fight.....I worry about her...I don't want her on drugs....I don't know what is going on there....I used to make her go to bed......Now I have no idea what is going on ..and she needs me...I wish you would take that class....My lawyer is telling me to accept your offer...as long as you stick with it.....I am willing to take the classes....The family I am with now is awesome.....I want Sarah to see this....We are going to curling matches every weekend ...I want Sarah to play and she would love it ...It is an old Irish sport..On ice.... Becka wants to teach her......She is lead on her team...And would be a real big sister to her.....I am sorry I get angry....But Sarah is everything to me..I want her to participate in my new family....She will love it....We can help her..... no pills please.....Ok Lets try ?..If it don't work then the DR...maybe meds.......I hate that...we will see ok ? But we may not have a choice...Ok ?.. If we go to trial it will hurt us all...The classes told me that...I have been told we need to be friends for Sarah's benifet....I am willing....Are you willing to let go to do this ? I am..no more fighting ? Ok ? Let me know..
So I'm not sure what to make of this. I told him I was going to the classes and he should accept my offer. It gives me physical custody and him unsupervised visits. I am going to make sure that it is put in there that Sarah can call me at anytime she feels uncomfortable or if her father is drinking. He has cut me off from using the phone before when drinking and I would expect he would do that to Sarah too. I just want to puke when he talks about his "new family" and how wonderful and special everything is now after the hell he put me and my son thru.
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