Big Spender

Here I am, the Big Spender.  I went to our new Kohl's and went and spent $45.  I got Travis a new pair of jeans.  Myself this sweater which is normally around $50, for $21.99.  I also got a mock turtle neck with little snowmen all over for $8.99.  I also got Travis a pair of jeans and just realized they overcharged me.  They were supposed to be 9.99 and they charged me 14.99.  I will have to bring them back now.  They have alot of nice clothes and other things.  I got alot of ideas for Christmas.  I couldn't resist the sweater however.  Its very warm too!  I really need to color my hair.  Ugh.  I hate it gray.  Makes me look old.  I have a box, thats what I'll do tonight.  Here is me with Brownie performing her latest trick!

Yes, Its upside-down Brownie! 

Dave left me some cash at his mothers.  I don't want to take it without calling Child Support because they are supposed to be taking it out of his checks.  He wants a reciept also.  I'm not taking anything or signing anything!  Not much else going on.  I am going to go color my hair!  Linda

A church at sunset

This pretty little church is in Porter Corners, NY.  I was driving by just as the sun was hitting the steeple.  I had to stop and grab a picture before the sun set. 

I brought the car in to the shop today.  They said is some type of shaft, not the drive shaft that needs to be replaced.  They had to order the part.  They said the car is safe to drive in the meantime.  I really didn't do to much else on my day off.  Slept, did a little housework.  I'm lazy!  I can't believe Thanksgiving is coming so quickly.  Just a little over two weeks away!  I still am working.  Not sure if Sarah is going to spend time with her father or not.  He hasn't seen her since his arrest.  So I don't have too much more to say. 

 

Starting a new week

I wish I was sitting next to that campfire right now.  I need a little bit of R&R.  After the stress of last week and then working hard all weekend.  I worked as the Unit Assistant both days.  That involves passing breakfast trays out.  Cleaning up, going around and making beds and passing pads (diapers).  There were alot of beds not made and I was almost ready to scream every time I saw another stripped bed!  There was a medical emergency yesterday afternoon.  I was calling and calling and out looking for a nurse and they finally came.  The lady was unresponsive and very pale.  Her blood pressure was off and her oxygen was low.  She came around after a few minutes and we got her in bed.  I think she will be alright, although it gave her husband a scare!  I was glad to get home last night.  Of course then I ended up arguing with my son.  He was being very rude and talking down to me.  Acting just like my ex.  Pissed me right off.  I told him if I talked like that to my Mom I would of gotten smacked.  He said go ahead, child abuser etc...  You can't get away with that now.  Grrrrr, I wanted to smack him, thats for sure!  He did apologize though, I guess he was afraid he would be grounded.  He should of been.  I got up early today, I had an angry dream.  I was working with my co-worker Sheri and we were dealing with some old guy.  He was getting fresh with me and somehow ended up sitting on my lap!  It was funny at that point because I was pretending to be Santa and asking him what he wanted for Christmas.  He said for me to have his kids!  Well that part of the dream ended and Sheri was walking away from me.  I still needed her help and was waiting and then decided to go downstairs to the office.  When I got there it was full of nursing students.  One of them was in my spot and my co-worker Hope said "tough sh**".  I ended up stomping out of the office and waiting in the very crowded lobby (why crowded, I don't know) for them to leave.  I also had called them a bad word before I left too.  It continues on from there, but I woke up angry!  So I hope my week goes better.  We have been getting pulled nearly everyday for patient care.  Its getting pretty old.  I know thats what is more important, I just like knowing what to expect when I go in to work everyday.  I like routine.  At least we don't have to do mandatory overtime!  The other CNA's do and I don't know how they do it..  I can do a 12 hr shift but thats all my body can handle. 

Ok enough complaining!  Time to get ready for work! 

Hi Mom!  Love you!

More than a DWI

The arrest was in the local paper this morning.  It said he was charged with Aggravated DWI ( Over .18), DWI, Aggravated Unlicenced Operation of Motor Vehicle, Speeding, Lane Change without signal, Registration Suspended, Inspection Overdue.  I think he is in a world of hurt.  Enough said...

GUESS WHO GOT A DWI

Yes, thats right, the genius (the ex) got a DWI last night!  I guess he went out to drown his sorrows and got pulled over by the Saratoga Springs Police!  I know I shouldn't gloat but its hard.  His mother says she is finally seeing that he really needs help.  I guess she had to bring Sarah with her to pick him up at 2:30 AM.  She kept Sarah out of school and didn't tell me until I went over there to pick her up.  I wish she would tell me next time.  She also brought the ex to the bank and she said when she went to pick him up the house was full of garbage.  Sarah said the heater was smoking etc..  I'm not sure, but I think he is using kerosene right now.  Probably can't afford to fill up the propane tanks.  He will have to end up paying some hefty fines and probably have to do the alcohol classes too.  I cannot say I feel sorry for him, I'm just upset because he will loose the house now.  If he gives me enough warning, maybe I can get some professional cleaners in there or something to get it ready to sell.  I can't afford that either though.  We need a damn dumpster! 

Anyhow, I've been trying to add an album, but AOL has decided it doesn't support my current browser. 

 

Waahoooo!

Yes!  Right now I am ecstatic!  Everything went great in court.  He agreed to everything before we went in.  The only thing he managed to dredge up on me and complain about is that Sarah sleeps in my bed with me!  Yes, she does.  She is 8 and doesn't like sleeping alone.  She is lonely and cold.  Its something we are working on and she is still a little girl.  So I retain physical custody of her.  She doesn't have to spend the night there and also he is not to drink at ALL during parenting time.  I was beyond happy and so relieved.  Thanks to all for sending good thoughts and prayers! 

 

 

It's November!

I love November.  Its one of my favorite months.  I'm reminded of warm fireplaces, family and lots of good food!  I am going to work this year on Thanksgiving, because Sarah will be visiting with her Dad.  I don't know what I'm going to do about dinner, probably make one the following day or on the weekend.  I've got a while to think about it anyhow.  I do enjoy holidays at work.  I enjoy dressing up the folks in their best clothes.  I love serving them the big meal and watching them visit with their families.  For those without family, I try to make it special for them and really give them alot of love. 

Today is court again.  I am terrified.  I truly am.  Not about telling the judge what happened, but by him actually making me share custody of Sarah and just giving the ex a little tap on the hand and tell him to behave.  I just pray that the ex will agree to the things I'm asking for and not drag it out.  I will update this tonight and let everyone know what happened.  Please send prayers and good thoughts that everything will go well. 

A halloween beauty!