Tuesday, May 8, 2007

A bad date

I went on a date today with Ramon and it was not very good.  I felt uncomfortable around him.  I hate to sound prejudice or against any particular group, but to me he seemed gay.  He was very feminine sounding and had a very nicely decorated house including an espresso machine and a bedroom with a huge bed and decorator pillows on it!  He was very fastidious about everything.  He told me he eats Cheetos with chopsticks so he doesn't get orange stuff on his hands!  If I didn't know he was seeking a woman I would swear he was gay.  I have nothing against gays, I'm just not attracted to men that seem that way.  Oh well, he made me realize Dave isn't all that bad!  He takes me the way I am.  With Ramon, I don't think I would ever feel like I was good enough. I know he would freak if he saw my slobby house!  Oh well, I guess I'm not ready to explore single life again.  Besides that my day was ok.  Tomorrow is the fundraiser banquet where I have to give my speech.  Aggghhhhh!  Wish me luck!  Linda

thanks to donna for graphic!



madcobug said...

Hey some people are bisexual you know. He could very well be gay. Go by your instincts. Hope your funraiser goes well. Helen

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ally123130585918 said...

If you don't feel comfortable with him Linda don't date him again ~ glad your day went well otherwise ~ Good Luck with your speech and fundraising day ~ Ally x

fowfies said...

Hey you know what, just be yourself. Sounds like he has OCD!!! LOL! The orange does wash off for heavens sake! Have to laugh about that. Sorry the date wasnt what you wanted it to be. You are still braver than I. I just couldn't see trying to date again now...it would be so much well...trouble! Trying to find someone that is compatible is no small feat.

nana0014 said...

Doesn't sound like he's right for you anyway. Keep looking.
Take care, Chrissie

springangel235 said...

Sorry things did not work out...go with your gut feelings...you will be fine...hugs,

rjet33 said...

He need to find a neat freak like him.  My DIL was like that and my son is a slob.  It didn't work out.  She was too controlling about cleanliness.  I swear I raised him better.  ::wink::



nightmaremom said...

go with your gut... if you aren't comfy forcing it will be worse.  Good luck in the hunt :)

bhbner2him said...

OH, well.....live and learn.  One bad date doesn't mean you can't keep looking around.  -  Barbara