Sunday, September 9, 2007

More drama

I finally got hold of Sarah after 9 AM.  She told me her father had peed on her bed.  I said "what? your Dad peed on your bed?"  She said yes so I asked to speak to him.  He told me that I was being ridiculous and it was the dogs that did it.  Also Sarah called her Grandmother after she tried to call me and she went up and spent the night with her.  Later, I sent him a text message suggesting that Sarah should spend the nights at her Grandmothers.  His reply was FU and if I text or call him again he was going to file harrasement charges and that I had upset Sarah alot last night...  So I guess I'm not allowed to protect my own daughter or be concerned for her welfare.  I had also talked to his mother and she said he had been drinking but "wasn't drunk".  I am thinking about going back to court and telling the judge that this is not working.  I do not need to be afraid for my childs safety and getting treated so badly.  I know he would say it is me treating him badly because I questioned him on his drinking instead of going to Sarah's party and asked him why he has money for alcohol when he claims to be broke all the time.  I'm really at a loss of what to do...  Linda

8 comments:

nightmaremom said...

Linda you need to get a lawyer and go back to court.  This is insane.. for you as well as Sarah.  She does not need that.  I am sending good thoughts
love ya
d

jeadie05 said...

I think you should speak to some one for your own peace of mind and your daughters safety....love Jan xx

bhbner2him said...

More than likely he slept walked and pissed in her bed thinking it was something else.  I'm glad Sarah had the good sense to call her grandmother.  I'm sure that woman is torn between loyalty to her son and what she must know in her heart, if not her head, is going on.  I can't blame you one bit for wanting to go back to court.  But I know it will be a battle.  So hard to prove one is drunk and when.  And if someone has never lived with one, it's hard for them to imagine the wierd goings on can really happen.  I pray wisdom and strength for you!!  I pray God protect Sarah's sweet little heart and spirit.  I'm sure she loves her daddy, even if she can't understand all he does.  -  Barbara

tendernoggle said...

I know he must love her, but the alcohol is blinding him to his actions....and  his mama loves him so it is hard for her to be really objective...Linda...just as you drew the strength form deep down to leave this guy...you will probably have to get tough again to help your little girl..Go to someone in the local courthouse...such as a probate judge, etc...and explain the situation....and ask for their advise as to the best way to handle it...Maybe you can even reason with your ex if you catch him sober and see if he will let Sarah meet him at Mc Donald's or like you said, spend the night with her granmother if her grandmother agrees. Basically little sarah is the one that needs to be thought about and he should realize that.
love ya,
carlene

ally123130585918 said...

I would definitely go back to court ~ for the sake of your Daughter and for your peace of mind ~ Ally x

wwfbison said...

I would go to court, neither you nor Sarah should even have to deal with this.  Sorry you have to go through this.
Lisa

seraphoflove9001 said...

Poor Sarah. I would deffinitly go to court. And I don't blame you for wanting your own child to be safe! I hope things get sorted out for the good for you.
Lisa

fowfies said...

Now why would she say HE peed on her bed if it was the dogs. Good grief. I wonder if he stumbled in there and peed on the bed and she was in it??? What a horror to have happen...to see your fathers genitals and him peeing on your bed. Scarred for life is what I say. Go to court. As far as I am concerned he should only have supervised visits if that. Now, imagine if you had caught him peeing on her bed, on camera...like I was saying. It would be a closed case.