What happened today at my Dad's could of been avoided, but was probably inevitable. I brought Logan over there. My Father has never acknowledged Logan or William for that matter. He says Lindsay should be ashamed for having babies while she is a teenager and not married. He has never seen either one of the boys. I had Logan with me when I went to my Dad's. I tried to call first and let him know I had him, but the phone was busy. He probably would of said, Don't bother coming. When I got there, he said come on in. He looked at Logan and didn't say anything. I told him I tried to call but the phone was busy. My Father totally ignored Logan the whole time we were there. He sat in his chair and wouldn't even look at us. It felt very uncomfortable. Logan had a toy and went over to show him and he ignored Logan. He ignored that little boy. Logan is only 1 1/2 yrs old. How can you treat your own great-grandson like that? I cannot fathom it. I was so upset, I put coats on everyone and left. I said goodbye to Nancy, at least she seemed interested in Logan. My father said nothing. He has always been very judgemental of other people. He only speaks to one or two other relatives of his. He is very critical of me too. He really never praises me or says he is proud. I did drag it out of him once. He never offers to help me even though he knows I have a hard time financially. He is so quick to judge other people. I don't know why he is denying his own great-grandson's. I am just so shocked and upset. I was crying when I left and cried half way home. I haven't called him and don't plan on it. He will probably expect me to apologize for bringing Logan over there. When Lindsay found out she was so mad. She was threatening him with bodily harm. I begged her not to do anything stupid. She said she was going to call him and tell him off. She is so angry at him anyhow for the way he treats her and the boys. He has never really been a grandfather to her kids or mine for that matter. So I am pretty upset tonight. I don't want this to cause a rift in between my father and I, but I am very upset and I know he is wrong.
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